Monday, April 4, 2011

Chinchilla care and Hair Rings











Chili 2002 - 2011

Having children often means experiencing the joys and sorrows of loving and losing pets.
Sometimes I worry I've damaged my kids with all the heartache, but I also know they wouldn't be the empathetic, warm people they've grown up to be without the experience of responsibility and dealing with the stages of grief when they pass.

We've had the hamsters, gerbils, guinea pigs, rabbits and even rats (from the lab when my sister was in school for veterinary technician). But when my son asked for a chinchilla at the age of eleven we hesitated. I believed rodents just don't live long enough to invest that kind of money in an exotic animal. But come Christmas there was a complete set-up, pen and all, at a local pet shop. A woman was turning it over because her child wasn't taking proper care of it and she didn't want it to become her job. So since the price was right and these animals have a much longer life span than a rabbit or guinea pig (15+ years vs. 4 - 5 yrs.) we brought Chili home for the holidays.

Not knowing a thing about these critters, we did our homework and thought we did everything right. He was about 1 - 2 years old when we got him and by five years later, my son was 16 and drifting further away from paying what I thought was enough attention to Chili.
So we kept an eye out for a companion at our local Humane Society and eventually adopted Bugsy (he looked like a mouse to me with those eyes so different than Chili).

Putting two adults together is often a 'hit or miss' but being both were males it worked out great. I think it was that Chili was so easy going. Where my son could walk around with Chili sitting on his shoulder, Bugsy was more of a spazz and would leap off and be very hard to catch. I don't think he was handled very much as a baby.

We always assumed that we would have both chinchillas all the way through our kids' college years and beyond. What happened caught us off guard and I can't believe with all the information I had I never heard to look out for what is called a 'hair ring'.

Though rarely home, our son didn't worry about Chili's care because he knew I'd take care of him when he couldn't, and Chili had Bugsy for company. So we didn't notice anything wrong until what seemed like overnight Chili looked weak and thinner.
What we found was a fuzzy looking penis which upon inspection was tightly wound hair that had pulled back into the sheath and cut off urine flow. We don't know how long it was like that but obviously long enough to compromise his bladder and kidney function.

We removed him from his cage and kept a careful eye on him to see if he could urinate, which he did so hoped there wasn't permanent damage.
We found an exotic veterinarian within an hour's drive who was wonderful but told us up front how delicate these creatures are and stress alone can cause further illness.
We spent eight days in round the clock care making sure Chili was fed a critical care gruel type food, received an antibiotic, eye drops, and kept hydrated using an eyedropper. IV fluids weren't an option, poking needles would just have been too stressful.

It was two steps forward and one step back. Every time we thought he was doing better, he'd then become very weak all over again. We just kept telling ourselves if his kidneys weren't working properly he wouldn't have lasted more than a day or two.
Nine days after we first discovered the hair ring we met a new day saying goodbye to our little friend.
Needless to say we really bonded to our little chinchilla after all that, and will miss him a great deal. I feel guilty that maybe if I had paid more attention it all could have been prevented. But I also am realistic that with a busy household and multiple pets sometimes we just have to accept 'what is'.

Hopefully our experience will prevent this from happening again. Jared has two friends who have these exotic pets and neither ever heard of hair rings. Normally chins can remove any caught hairs while grooming. We now know to periodically inspect the penis by pulling back on the sheath and look for any trapped hairs. I doubt Bugsy will appreciate our poking but that is the way it's going to be.

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Our Marco



Definitely one of a kind was our little Marco, nicknamed my Charmin Kitty because she was so squeezably soft. Her pregnant mama was rescued from the streets of Philadelphia, Pa and delivered her litter safely in the care of her foster mom who volunteered with an organization called Cat Shack.

Separating siblings or just choosing between the last two left was an impossible decision for my husband to make so being the softy he is he comes home with two kittens. Two little fuzzy, fly away furballs we named Marco and Polo.

These two had to have been the most pampered kittens imaginable. Our kids were at that age where they could be very responsible with pets yet not too old that they became easily tired of their existence. We always were a multi-cat household and over the years other cats were adopted into our home, much to the dislike of these two disgruntled princesses.

As Marco got older she clearly left her message to us how she felt by leaving behind as my husband joked "golden honey droplets". Driving us crazy with her indignant behavior and bugging to go outside to get away from the others, we finally relented. Not meant to be an indoor and outdoor cat, it was a decision to either ban her to the basement because she couldn't be trusted, or give her the freedom she craved at the risk of losing her.

We got away with it for about five years until a fateful evening in October 2010. Torturing ourselves with guilt over her "could have been prevented" death, once enough time passed to see things rationally I now realize that she lived her life as she wanted and had a wonderful time with us. She was definitely a favorite and just thinking about her cute antics brings forth tears but in the world of cats she was one of the lucky ones and had a wonderful eight years to do as she pleased.

In a household like ours there will always be someone new at our door who needs our love and care. In life, "It is what it is". Words of wisdom from a dear family member. We love our pets and do the best we can at the time. Being totally responsible for their care we tend to forget that they are individuals too and want to lead their own lives. We can only do so much to keep them safe and healthy.

I do pray a lot and thank God every night when everyone is in the house and safe for another day. Right now we only have one other cat who goes outside. She gets herself so upset when she feels trapped with other cats that it is just too chaotic. I have yet to see her near the road but again she has her own mind. So I just pray for her safety and listen for her at the door.




Saturday, January 15, 2011

Love and Loss...The Serenity Prayer















While children are young the pets in the home are usually a stable part of their lives and assumed to always be there upon returning home.
But children grow up and pets grow old.

One of my most rewarding moments as a parent was having the opportunity to witness my two young children stand in a room brimming with ten furball puppies and telling them to pick one. The litter was born January 29, 1998 on Superbowl weekend. We used our wedding anniversary as an excuse to take one of the puppies and on March 8th we loaded up two very excited children and one lucky pup.

These puppies were one of those "mistakes" where a purebred mom accidentally comes into contact with a neighborhood dog. Not being worthy of a papered dog they were free for the taking. The mom was a black lab and the dad a golden retriever. The kids chose one of the long-haired fluff balls with just a smidgeon of white. By the time we got home it was decided her name should be Smudge.



We already had our Yankee who at that time was three years old and very receptive to his little charge. From day one that puppy had an enviable life for any dog. Between the doting cats and the ever present Yankee she wasn't alone for a minute. We never needed little tricks to keep her from whining or prevent destructive behavior from boredom. Housebroken by four months she had the run of the house and sought out her lifelong place by our bed.

With such long thick black fur, summers were hard on Smudge. Using a shearer for horses she got shaved every May. It was like shearing a sheep. Once she got used to the noise she relaxed and reveled in the cool freedom when done. Of course all that black fur turned up in I'm sure countless bird nests throughout the neighborhood. We even found it being used by a nest of mice in an old gourd birdhouse.

A favorite memory was her fondness for our chickens. Yankee was fine too with their presence but Smudge would actually sit next to the babies upon their arrival every spring. I'm sure they were just fascinating to watch and it was warm by the heat lamp, but by the time they were moved out to the barn, Smudge was trusted not to chase or hurt any one of them. A nightly ritual was to tag along when we shut the doors for the night and receive her daily treat of an egg.

A large dog, our battle throughout her lifetime was to try to keep her weight down. At her heaviest she hovered a bit over 100 lbs. We lost her without warning shortly after Thanksgiving in 2008. Possible causes were an undiagnosed tumor or circulatory problems due to "fatty blood". Like every pet owner we tortured ourselves for not being more aware of any warning signals she may have been portraying. Animals are amazing at not outwardly displaying signs of pain. By the age of 11 she was gentle and quiet anyway. I just hope she wasn't suffering and we were clueless.



Still find it hard to fathom we got through losing both our beloved dogs within six months of each other. But we have the comfort of knowing we gave both those dogs the best we could offer and they died knowing they were loved and part of a real family.

Life goes on and if there is any character building in loving and losing a pet it's knowing when to
"accept what is". What is done is done and no matter how many replays we put ourselves through we have to realize "it is what it is". There is good reason why the Serenity Prayer is found within so many religious traditions.






God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference